Saturday, 16 February 2013

How I be your Umi..(Part 1)

   Aku sendiri tak sangka dah jadi mak or ummi as my kids called me.Bukan senang sebenarnya jadi sorg mak..nak membesarkan anak especially zaman sekarang..boleh dikatakan aku sebenarnya buat family planning dulu lps setahun kahwin tp bila tak de anak masa tu memang la seronok sebab nak gi mane2 pun tak pe, nak jln tgh2 mlm pun tak pe bak kata org "honeymoon" lagi.

  Tak lama kelamaan jadi boring.Tengok kengkawan dpt baby aku seronok. Aku rasa lonely sb hubby pun busy dgn band & kerja dia.Aku pun mem'busy'kan diri dgn kerja aku (2 tahun dulu bekerja ye) & kengkawan..
Everytime kami kat rumah pun masing2 buat hal masing2,kami selalu bergado (which is sebelum ni masa couple kitorg tak pernah gado..seriously) & macam2 dugaan la sampai satu tahap we need our own space.

   Masa tu aku amik birth control pill without his permission till 1 day he saw the pills inside my bag..jeng..jeng..kantoi sudah...so cam biase la kan org bersalah mesti la kena buat explanation..explained punya explained hubby soh aku pikir sendiri tuk future.."how is it gonna be" bila kita dah tua lebih kurang cam2 la dia ckp..tiba2 aku terdengar fav song aku third eye blind dlm kepala.."how is gonna be.." 

   Pada satu hari tu, aku terpikir mungkin bila ade anak nanti kami tak kan bergado cam sebelum2 ni..& mungkin ade anak he show his love to me..He will spent time with me & the kids..macam2 la..So aku pun tukar fikiran & agree to have a baby in our 1 year marriage which is aku plan nak baby bila marriage kitorg dah 2@3 tahun. Ye la kita merancang Allah menentukan..Macam2 la aku pikir..am I strong enough to be a mom? Ye la nak jadi mak ni kena kuat mental tuk didik anak2 nanti, fizikal tuk bermain & jaga dorg nanti & keimanan tuk tahap kesabaran yg tinggi dgn kerenah diorg..

 2 bulan lps tu aku tak amik pill tu aku pregnant..he so excited & he really take good care of me..Aku pun amik la kesempatan nak manja dgn dia..hehee..He totally changed & prove to me he is good father after we got Liqa. Contohnya; bila aku breastfeed Liqa tengah malam dia pun akan bangun temankan aku so I'm not lonely..katanyer..but it sweet though..hihihi...

   However, drama tak abis kat situ je..pregnant kan Gibby lagi banyak drama yg mostly org tak tau..jeng..jeng..jeng...I will story you in next episode coz I'm sleepy now..hahaaa



Bye..see ya soon..

   

Saturday, 9 February 2013

Goodnight everyone!

   Hi there.. just a quick update what is going on with my hectic life! Still busy with my 2 ninjas..hehehe..& the good news is I'm involved in my own business..yeahh...finally!! Hopefully, for those read this don't hesitate to check out My Shop just click the banner & it will direct you to my facebook.

   Soon I'll be doing segment for those nak comment/feedback ke discuss ke about anything could be your life..families..current issues..bla..bla..blaa... so should I call the segment "Shout out" or "My Confession for today"...You decide & pls don't hesitate or malu-malu meow nak comment.. Jgn takut I ignore your comment coz...I like to comment on what ever people comment..(banyaknya comment). Ni la dia bila tak cukup tido merepek meraban sampai masuk jamban...waahhh cam pantun pulak..hihihi..


  Ok la..before it getting worst I think I should go to bed now..


 Bye..see ya soon!!

  


Thursday, 7 February 2013

Bedtime horror

Finally I get a time to update this blog! Never imagine that I can be this busy even as a fulltime housewife..seriously.. Sometimes I forgot that my kids is grown up everyday is challenge for me,for now bedtime routine is more challenging than any things else (but still cooking is my 1st challenging task..hahaa). Everynight my hubby & I take each one of them to sleep. We can't put they together in bed because obviously Liqa will interupt me & need attention while I breastfeed Gibby OR Gibby will interupt his sister while she try to sleep..can you imagine how 5 months old baby did that...yeah..I know some of you will laughing & not believe what I said but it is true..Sometimes, it likes wrestling match between 4 of us...
  
   First 3-4 months really challenging because I don't have any experience to take care of 2 kids at same time & the result will be disaster after chaos. Eventhough I took care my lil bro while he still baby doesn't mean I experinced enough to take care of 2 kids! Beside..it only for few hours till my mom or dad went home not a bedtime. Since I became Ummi (as my kids called me) my mom always remind me & I still believe in her words "Be independent & don't rely too much on other peoples." It's true..soon or later if we move to our own house we have to do by ourselves.I'm afraid when we lived independently I'll be "cultre shock being a mom"..hahahaa.. I mean I'll be more stressful instead of being happy with them..

  I try many methods (some of it I search in internet) how to make they sleep tidely till morning..some of methods that I had tried is put aromatherapy oil before bedtime this method only worked for few days. Play sentimental,light & easy music it's working but only few months..Finally, I figure out myself..I let them played until they tired..guess what?? It is working!! So now, I don't have to be stressful anymore..no wrestling match when to come to bedtime..
Yippie..!! One problem with good lesson solved!! Another more to come I'll take it & prove to people that I can be a good & cheerful mom that as I wanted to be..


Well..that's all for now..see ya soon!!